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Musings on compassionate leadership, self-care, and the sacred.


How is a Community Minister Different from a Parish Minister?
I get asked this question a lot! Community ministry is my Call at this moment. What will the future hold? I know it will include both continuous growth, an expansion of my services, and a deepening of my skills. When it comes to other aspects of my life, I have been very deliberate, whereas for whatever reason - my ministry has demanded a more organic, go-with-the-flow approach. I continue to embrace the beautiful uncertainty of how my ministry has and continues to unfold. Be
Nov 26


Introducing THE "Reverend Ebony C. Peace"
Wow, it happened! Iโm officially a โReverendโ ๐ Does this mean that Iโm going to drop everything and run off into the sunset to start my own church?ย No, not quite, but Iโm glad you asked! ๐ I have been multi-vocational for a long time, and I LOVE it!ย Serving my students, clients, congregants, and association members brings me deep fulfillment.ย Iโm someone whoโs often lived at a naturally high frequency. I didnโt choose or try to be this way. Iโve come to understand that
Nov 17


Ordination into the UU Ministry: Today Was My Big Day!
Today was my big day. A once in a lifetime affirmation that inspires my journey. If you missed it, you can watch the replay here: https://lnkd.in/eq4eJG6f I started off anxious but quickly turned it into a more productive and healthier feeling โ excitement .How do you handle anxiousness around a big occasion or important situation? How do you โlet it goโ so you can enjoy the journey and lean into the possibilities?For me, I have lots of practice turning anxiety into excitem
Nov 15


How I Live Into My Multi-vocational Community Ministry
This Saturday will be a very special day in my life and in my ministry. I never knew if ordination would be a part of my journey, and yet here we are. I am filled with gratitude and joy. I was raised in a mixed religious household. My mother is Pentecostal and enrolled my brothers and I into Christian school. My father is a Unitarian Universalist (UU) and took me to his UU church most Sundays. Some ideas that caused me to lean into Unitarian Universalism ย instead of the versi
Nov 12


Cat Talk: Communicating Compassionate Empathy When We're Not The Same
My 17-year-old cat Xena, communicates her wants and needs โบ๏ธ As they say, โThe squeaky wheel gets the grease!โ I agree. Speak up for what you want. ๐Surround yourself with people who love and cherish you. They will find joy in giving you your heartโs desire, no matter how silly or quirky that desire is. Donโt assume others know what you need. Donโt be afraid to ask for what you want. ๐When you surround yourself with people who care, you are more likely to be cared
Nov 12


Compassionate Empathy: Leading With Extraordinary Support in Unprecedented Times
Eleanor Roosevelt once said, "๐๐ โ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ฆ๐๐ข๐๐ ๐๐๐, ๐ข๐ ๐ ๐ฆ๐๐ข๐ โ๐๐๐; ๐ก๐ โ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐กโ๐๐๐ , ๐ข๐ ๐ ๐ฆ๐๐ข๐ โ๐๐๐๐ก."ย This is a good reminder just how easy it is to forget the human element that is at the core of our work. Empathy, in my opinion โ is one of the most important leadership competencies now, and in the future. Consider this: Can AI demonstrate empathy?I donโt think so.ย Artificial Intelligence lacks subjective experience, emotions,
Nov 8


Shine the Chalice of Your Heart
โจโจSHINE โจโจ Whatโs meant for you, will find you. BUT if YOU donโt recognize it when it arrives, youโll never reap the benefits. The best way to recognize what is meant for you - ย is to prioritize loving yourself; which means putting yourself first. Loving yourself and putting yourself first does not mean you are heartless or that you donโt care for anyone but yourself. On the contrary, it means your capacity for care increases because youโre doing so from a full cup rather tha
Nov 4


Happy Halloween ๐ We are living in frightening times. Let's DO something about it
Happy Halloween! We are living in frightening times. โ ๏ธ Despite this, I am deeply encouraged by the compassion and leadership of those I surround myself with. Today I served as a panel member during a โWomen in Business Breakfastโ event hosted atย Tower Club Tysons ย in Virginia. Prior to the panel, each attendee in the audience shared their holiday wish. Almost everyoneโs holiday wish centered on peace, paying it forward, and growth for all. My experience this morning reminde
Oct 31


Letโs Live Our Values of Interdependence and Generosity during the SNAP Crisis
โMillions of Americans, including more than 15 million children, will go hungry starting this week. It is a moral scandal and an affront to our Unitarian Universalist (UU) values of interdependence and generosity." - UUA ๐๐ฐ๐ธ ๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ, ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ต๐ฆ๐ข๐ฎ, ๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ฐ๐ณ๐จ๐ข๐ฏ๐ช๐ป๐ข๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฑ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ฅ๐ถ๐ณ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ณ๐ช๐ด๐ช๐ด? Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. reminds us that โInjustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere. We are caught in an inescap
Oct 29


Widen the Circle of Compassion With This Leadership Perspective
The best minds with the biggest hearts from the past and present have one thing in common. They have consistently named the importance of...
Oct 1


The Importance of Sunsetting Programs with Empathy
We often hear that โThe act of letting go is not just about removing the negative; itโs about making room for the positive.โ In many...
Sep 11


The Key Responsibility of An Inclusive Leader
As you embark on your professional journey, remember that your achievements are not just for your benefit. They carry a responsibility to...
Aug 14


๐ง๐๐ผ ๐ช๐ฎ๐๐ ๐ง๐ผ ๐๐ผ๐๐๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐ฎ ๐๐ฟ๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐๐๐ฑ๐ฒ ๐ ๐ถ๐ป๐ฑ๐๐ฒ๐ ๐๐ป ๐ฌ๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ง๐ฒ๐ฎ๐บ
๐ชป ๐ง๐๐ผ ๐ช๐ฎ๐๐ ๐ง๐ผ ๐๐ผ๐๐๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐ฎ ๐๐ฟ๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐๐๐ฑ๐ฒ ๐ ๐ถ๐ป๐ฑ๐๐ฒ๐ ๐๐ป ๐ฌ๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ง๐ฒ๐ฎ๐บ ๐ชป โ๏ธ Gratitude fosters resilience. โ๏ธ...
Jul 11


The Sacred Responsibility of Inclusive Leaders On The 4th of July 2025
As we celebrate Independence Day and mourn the โBig Beautiful Billโ that will harm our most vulnerable and our future generations, itโs a...
Jul 4


World Pride Interfaith Service 2025
We can make a difference! World Pride Interfaith worship service. Myself and about 10 others clergy, advocates, and lay leaders have been...
Jun 6


Strategic Organizational Growth Resources for UU-Related Ministries
Wow, the Unitarian Universalist Associations 2025 General Assembly is right around the corner! I am happy to serve as a delegate for my...
May 15


Co-Creating Our Beloved Community: Rediscovering Unitarian Universalism (Bring this class to your congregation)
I spent a wonderful Saturday morning at Mount Vernon Unitarian Church welcoming new and interested members. I taught a UU class I created...
Apr 7


Guest Lecturer in Religion at The University of Tampa, Florida
I am excited to share that I will be a guest lecturer on March 20th at the University of Tampa. The sociology department at the...
Mar 13


Jesus's Birth and Life Are Worthy of Celebration
...A Christmas Reflection on Jesus ๐๐ฒ๐๐๐โ๐ ๐ฏ๐ถ๐ฟ๐๐ต ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐น๐ถ๐ณ๐ฒ ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐๐ต๐ ๐ผ๐ณ ๐ฐ๐ฒ๐น๐ฒ๐ฏ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป. In both his...
Dec 25, 2024


How Letting Your Team Shine Makes You A Better Inclusive Leader
Dr. Dharius Daniels, a cultural architect, spiritual leader, and trendsetter, reminds us that "You don't go as far as your dream. You go...
Dec 13, 2024
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